How deep does the rabbit hole actually go? Todays topic is trust. Why do we ask questions that we don't wanna know the answer to? Trust is always a key component of everyone's relationship, but is always the reason we break up. what are some things, we as partners are should ask eachother and if trust is the key to a strong relationship when to love really come into the equation, and if love is really the key do trust matter that much? You no the deal leave a message,
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ReplyDeletei honestly feel like trust is one of the biggest components to any relationship..it can bring two people together and honestly tear two people apart..loving somebody is easy but trusting someone is a whole other ball game..when you're saying you trust someone you're giving that person your WHOLE heart and believing that by doing that they will never break it..when you trust someone you're taking a risk which is commendable..it's not easy to trust especially when you've been hurt before..you're putting it all on the line for love..
now if you love someone but you can't trust them, some people say you can't be together.. i say yes you can..if you feel like dealing with bullshit 24/7 then you can most definitely be with that person..but what kind of relationship is that?? trust matters WAY more than love..no dude wants to hear a chick complaining all the time about this & that..they may love ole girl but it's later for that relationship if she's constantly going at him about cheating, lying, etc ..chicks feel the same way..no female wants to hear a guy bitching..about anything! especially if its about them cheating when they aren't BUT COULD be doing something..i know from experience..
my ex loved me to death but he didn't trust me AT ALL..he just KNEW i was cheating when i got to NSU..i wasn't doing a DAMN thing...not yet anyway..lol..i was in love with HIM..he couldn't see that..his friends told him i was messing around with a twin..smh..the twin was in high school WAYYY before he came along..either way, he ultimately dumped me..then he realized he had a good girl but it was too late...i was already gettin it in on campus..lol..
sooo yeah .. you can be with someone if you don't trust them..but your relationship will be built on bullshit ..
oh and i think if you're not going to handle the truth in a mature way then you shouldn't ask the fucking question! [excuse my language..i'm working on it] if you ask the person if they're cheating in a nice calm voice and they say yes in a nice calm voice then you need to leave in a nice calm way...AFTER you go off on that ass!
FYI BTW reese believes that you should never tell someone that they CAN trust you and then you do something to make them regret putting their trust in you in the first place..because once you start fucking with her heart, you're guaranteed to have problems...
holla.
SHOUT OUT TO REESE, UHHHHHHH, I CAME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT IM TOOOOO YOUNG 2 BE IN LOVE, AND IM GOIN HARD RITE NOW "DOIN ME"......SO I AINT ASKING TO MANY FEAMLES ANY QUESTIONS BECAUSE QUITE FRANKILY I DONT GIVE A FUCK, LOL
ReplyDeleteTrust is the main factor in any successful relationship..... I feel that as long as you have open communicaiton, trust will be there..... As long as both individuals are comfortable to express themselves to one another.... there won't be too much to argue about..... For every situation, there is an approach that you must take and you cant bring your past into the present and think that you are going to have a great future..... Trust comes with knowing how to let stuff go, how to move and, how to heal and mend from a broken heart and be vulunerable enough to put yourself back out there..... trust is just a chance that you must take if you ever want to find your soul mate!
ReplyDeleteTrust is always essential, you can have all the love in the world for somebody but if u cant trust them, you cant be with them. So dont violate that trust, cause once you do you have to learn the hard way.
ReplyDeleteTrusting is love. One word can sum up the both of them... Sacrifice. Love is basically giving without expecting or without thinking how the situation will affect you in the end. And to trust is doing the same. Your sacrificing you heart by putting it on the line for your partner. You cant have love without trust. If you do you might as well call it lust. Because, there is no anger, doubt, hatred, dishonesty, plus way more in love. Too many people missuse love, many dont even know the true meaning of it. So a relationship without trust... is like a car with little fuel...sooner or later your engine is gonna stop. as is the relationship. So its complete ignorance to be in that type of relationship. You need to have built trust before you get into the relationship. That could take weks, months, even years...and that ties back into sacrific.
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